ADVICE FROM THE OTHER SIDE

I wanted to share this with you because it’s very relevant, gives us a glance into the afterlife, and is very good advice.

My friend R passed away towards the end of 2014.  She had many idea and dreams. However it is fair to say that by the time her life ended, the life she had, the person she was, was so far off what she wanted to be or live as. Her sparkle had dimmed.

She came through in Spirit yesterday through a friend of mine who is also a medium. This friend of mine knew her, but not well, had only met her on a few occasions.

I won’t go into all of the detail as much of it was smaller detailed things about R’s and my friendship, and things we had done together and so forth.

However R admitted that in her life she had clung onto ideas, that were not realistic, and hurts and resentments that should have been let go of. You never would have known this as the mask she put on was pretty good. She said this hanging on  both  subconsciously and consciously influenced her decision making process and she made choices that were not for her best outcome, or best potential, and her finale was living a life that was so far away from who, or what  she wanted to be.

In the end she was diagnosed with Motor Neuron disease, which ironically in Louise Hays terms has something to do with no being that you truly are.

R was a Spiritual person, yet had grand ideas when living about what she perceived the world of Spirit to be like.  This was influenced by the number of books she read, and what different people would say. Now in Spirt herself, she admitted that she was a bit delusional about that.  (Said In a tongue and cheek way).

So I asked what is it like over there, and this is what she said:

“Everything is so pure and true, and amplified.  For instance if you look at a blade of grass, the colour is vibrant, and the detail intricate. Everything is energised. Things come and go as quickly as a thought”. 

She stressed that in life, please try to let go of things that upset you, because in the bigger scheme of it all, it really does not matter.  Find peace within, and happiness.  Focus inward to heal yourself, and try to think thoughts that help you. Don’t just take on what other people say; find out for yourself what is right for you.

Her Spirit is around me and my daughters a lot, and she said she is experiencing in Spirit what we might term as her big OE. As she is busy exploring and learning. My interpretation of that is that she is expanding her consciousness.

When asked will she reincarnate, she said no, she is free now, and is where she belongs and wants to be. She can now be her true essence.